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I am _________. There are 100's of things we can be. We have the control to make that blank what ever we want to. There are so many things we have control over to" fill in the blank" so to speak.  I love_______. Not so much, when it comes to people we love. Some of us believe it is chance, but I think it is much to complex to be left to chance. Whether its God, fate, destiny, karma, kismet or good fortune, something aligns in the universe and you find your soul mate. It can be in the most ridiculous way, and unknown to you in the beginning.  Or it may be like a large firework exploding and you know this is the one, whatever the case, it often seems predestined in hindsight.  We have many different kinds of relationships in life with people we love, but only one in a lifetime that connects us to our soul mate. The one and only person that completes us in a way that we never thought possible. We don't always find them first, but I do believe we always find them.  Sometimes we find them and lose them through life's unending complications, but we find them and they find us.  Sometimes other people know before we know, sometimes we find out when it's too late, that they were the one.  The "one" is a tricky creature, not always who we think, or dream it will be.  We also can be blindsided by the wrong ones on route to the right one. The million dollar question is how do you know.  There is no certain way to explain it, other than ,you just know. When you look at them, think about them,dream about them, see them, miss them, its always them, no matter what.  Good, bad or otherwise.  They are the other half, of who you are.  And you always know that you will always belong to each other in a way words can't describe. Try to keep yourself open to when they arrive, because they will.  You won't know who, when, or where, you will have to wait for all the blanks to be filled in.  I am fortune enough to know who fills in my blank...my husband of 26 years Michael. I am forever blessed to be your eternal soul mate. I love you!......
To Cole, keep looking......she is waiting for you somewhere out there.......

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