" I'm a bitch, I'm a lover, I'm a child, I'm a mother,I'm a sinner, I'm a saint..I do not feel ashamed. I'm your hell, I'm your dream, I'm nothing in between..you know you wouldn't want it any other way. So take me as I am. This may mean you'll have to be a stronger man, and rest assured when I start to make you nervous and I'm going to extremes' tomorrow I will change and today won't mean a thing."
We as humans are so multifaceted and our moods and emotions run the gammon from A to Z. One of the hardest things for us to learn to do is take people as they are. Good, Bad, Wrong, Right, everyday can be different, and being flexible and willing enough to adjust to people and their varied moods is difficult and tiring. When peoples moods are suited, it's easy to get along, when you are both in different places so to speak, it usually results in one of you having to compromise. The real trouble with relationships, Mother, Father, Sister, Brother, Friend, Lover, Wife, or Husband is when the relationship is one sided and you are always the one compromising. We need to be aware when we are falling into that role of being the "bitch" all the time, or the complainer, or the martyr or all the really bad things we can be and remember the other roles we need to be. We also need to let others in our lives have their turn at being a 'bitch' or whatever and we need to support that. That is the only way we can truly enjoy life and those around us, is to be the supporter and the supported, the sinner and the saint....you get what I'm going for here.
Life is about riding the roller coaster and letting others have their turn too.
UBU and ILLBMe............that's what makes the world go round...
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